Knowing Who You Are

Living With Purpose and Spiritual Mission 

What is your mission in life? A recent podcast with Jeff Cavins challenged me to think more deeply about living with purpose, spiritual mission, faith, and daily choices. 

When we do not live with a clear mission, other people may try to give us one. They may push their lifestyle, values, or worldview on us. Therefore, when we do not know who we are or why we are here, we become easier to influence. 

Knowing Your Identity in God 

However, people who know their purpose stand on firmer ground. They understand life more clearly, and others have a harder time pulling them away from the truth. In fact, they are difficult to win over because God has already won their hearts. As a result, evil has no real hold on them. What can it offer that they truly need? Nothing. 

That kind of clarity is tested in ordinary moments. For example, have you ever been placed in a compromising position where you had to say, “No thanks”? I remember, in my drinking days, trying to leave a bar while my “barstool buddies” tried to convince me to stay for one more drink. George Carlin once said, “Misery loves company.” My gut was telling me to leave, but my mind was being pulled in another direction. 

Moments like that reveal why spiritual mission matters: without a stronger purpose guiding us, we can be drawn back toward the very things we are trying to leave behind. 

Sobriety, Service, and Helping Others 

In sobriety, I see my mission clearly: help desperate alcoholics find a way out. 

Sober members built AA on a simple but powerful foundation: one alcoholic helping another. In the early days, sober men went into hospitals to seek out alcoholics who had little hope of survival. Early pioneers in medicine understood alcoholism as a progressive disease with no known cure. Today, many people enter recovery through rehabilitation centers and outpatient clinics. Still, their chances remain poor without personal help from someone who has experienced a certain spiritual awakening. 

I came into AA during a time that stood between the founders’ early methods and today’s call centers, treatment programs, and recovery resources. It was still the era of twelve-step calls. In my fellowship, you do not hear much about those calls anymore. 

Nothing feels more sobering than walking into a difficult situation and reaching out to someone who feels isolated and afraid. This work takes courage. When we understand alcoholism and stay grounded in our own spiritual program, we can serve with strength and confidence. Seeing someone overcome by the disease of alcoholism can shake anyone to the core. 

People have always cautioned me to bring another sober alcoholic when I enter someone’s home or an unfamiliar environment. You never know what you may encounter. The situation could become dangerous. Alcoholism wants us back, and its influence can leave a lasting impression, whether it appears boldly or subtly. 

Spiritual Strength Against Harmful Influence 

The key is knowing who you are in God. That identity gives you courage to enter places shaped by harmful influence and search for people who feel trapped, desperate, and ready for freedom. They may need the same grace you once received.

Remain watchful- alcoholism is a subtle foe. When we neglect our spiritual program, it can deceive us into believing we are fine when we are not. 

Courage, Compassion, and God’s Grace 

What the world needs now are people who meet others in their pain without fear. When we love with courage and compassion, God can work through us in powerful ways. 

Reflection: What is your purpose in life, and what is your spiritual mission? Do they align with knowing who you are? 

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